Prepare
We understand that learning from people is a long process, so we set a low threshold for this mission. At least finish the first two steps of the ICE method, i.e., Identify and Curate your Tribe of 150. If you can, then go on to start the last step of emulation and exchange as well 😊
To make the process easier, here are a few tips to get started:
It’s totally fine if your Tribe adds up to less than 150 people. Just make sure it is still more than 5, otherwise, something is wrong with your social life 😉
It helps to make your Tribe list a permanent document. Choose a suitable medium like a diary or digital software like Evernote, MS Excel, etc.
How strict you go to create your Tribe is your wish. Our suggested weightage of traits to cut out people/noise is: Negativity > Distractions > Neutral / Don’t Know
“Out of tribe” does not mean you cut all contact with someone. Just do not put extra effort to maintain touch. Whenever you meet a person outside your Tribe, meet with all your heart. Always be a human first
P.S.: Replacing the “virtuals” from Tribe is easy, but it can be hard for “physicals.” Depending on how deep your relationship was with them previously, you may need to transition out slowly. The easiest way is to immerse yourself in your passions and goals, so it automatically becomes a “No” to others’ random plans. Goes without saying but you should not care about others’ opinions of your new lifestyle.